I see. It is weird that he hasn't been rude and cruel at all. When you guys were separated for 3 months, was he asking about the baby? And when did he start getting with OW? In that separation time?
It's got to be the separation to explain why he wasn't nasty. (This is how it works in my mind!)
I do have to say that from Oct- Dec, my WH was somewhat interested in baby stuff: urged me to get the swine flu shot, helped me find a midwife, and got me water. (He had this thing where he just kept offering me water, I don't know.)
At the same time, he was hyper-critical and irritated with other baby things.
Then again, my WH was always rather critical and irritated. This is what I'm learning.
