TF - I feel your frustration...this is a painfully slow process. Treasure the moments that are positive. Main thing is that there is no OW, he has a real chance to come out of replay and reconnect....remember he is on his own time, you can't rush him.
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO