M&H - thank you for your post. I know that he tells OW private things from our life together, things that were just between us that I/we didn't share with anyone and he knows that very well...that he is betraying that trust really hurts...I know because then OW goes and tells her H and then he tells me what was said. Or when he wanted to R I told him something about OW's H and immediately he shared that with her and she brought it up with her H and of course her H told me about it.

Unfortunately I can't tell him anything that I don't want OW to know. He is just not trustworthy on any level right now frown


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO