Dang it, Red, I was hoping someone who was wiser would respond first.
Ok here is a question- how often do you think the kids have been around OW?
And could you somehow in the future find out where the kids are- give the 12 year old your cell phone? ???lol! I don't know- but I do think it is pointless to confront your H. I mean what have you get left to take away/threaten him with? Seriously- what is there left for you to do if he doesn't respect your wishes and leave OW?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
