Thanks Allen. I'll stick to my guns and keep pushing for one or the other so that she can't keep having the open marriage option. She really doesn't want to choose. My biggest fear now is that she won't choose. And I've been thinking that doing a temporary separation order may not be such a good idea either because the I WOULD be FORCING her out, would I not?
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
