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Fourth, still processing your sitch, P. Positive thought: it might be the same or even better if he goes overseas because 1) you can truly NC and move forward, 2) you will become mysterious to him, and 3) when he does visit, it can be really significant. It might make the timeframe seem so long BUT that's what many of us with non-overseas WHs are facing, too!


I totally agree with Gatsby- and although I just REFUSED to see this when I was pregnant-it would make it a lot easier to detach and not worry about WH if I didn't have to see him! So, Piano, you will have some help with the baby. And you will be returning to work after 6 months, right? The help, the lack of contact, and work will all make it so much easier for time to go by and for you to heal from this trauma. I just know it!

Gatsby I can't wait to see Babies! I saw a preview for it on Nightline! I think next Thursday night I will go watch it!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004