Whatnow, you crack me up about the candlesticks!
Will anyone be there to let your H in if you were gone? And are you sure you don't want to let him in but then have to rush out to go somewhere because you are running late? ;-)

And what do you think he will do when he finds out he is locked out?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004