screwing up big time and need help

[newmama]

Hmm, elevencat, I think there are (at least) 2 possible things going on:

1) your H is responding to your changes! KEEP THEM UP- but I have learned from watching others' threads that there is no quick overnight change around...it takes months,not weeks! But you want to see results to know if your plan is working of course! So the signs of him wanting to go to a movie, then wanting to eat lunch with you, then choosing conversation that is polite instead of him acting distant or being a big baby (lol!) are all good don't you agree?

2) I am suspicious about him asking about you moving out. The optimist in me wants to think "he is trying to see if she is bluffing or if she really will go through with it so he is testing her reaction- he doesn't want her to move out!"

but, sadly, the pessimist in me (and I AM jaded) worries that he wants to know when the house will be free so he can have OW over.

Elvencat please find reasons to shoot down #2! I WANT to be wrong!