Hey Gatsby- have you learned how to quote yet? switch to full reply screen, highlight the text and then choose the " button at the top!
Sorry if you know this already!

OK well here is the story I was going to share: just found out that a friend of mine got his girlfriend pregnant when he was 19. He wanted to break up with her but still be in his son's life.She wanted nothing to do with him (so he says). So he walked away but still paid child support. NOW do you really think people are buying the story that there was nothing he could do to see his son? (gosh that sounds judgmental but I have a huge bias about dads who abandon their kids and non committal deadbeat dads!)

My point is that even though this is a good guy, people, myself included, think "yeah you were young but you left your son high and dry." Therefore, your WAH can spin whatever version he wants, and people will know that he did the wrong and selfish thing.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004