hey Newmama (and WN), Processing things as they stand and detatching from WAH could definately be making you feel low. WN's example illustrates this well - doesn't matter what your are doing sometimes (watching TV, having fun with friends) the sadness is still there. I think it's really important to have breaks from thinking and worrying about how it's all gonna turn out. Keep focussed on the next job at hand, how can you make the next 15mins or 1hr more enjoyable for you? Would it mean taking a walk, arranging some flowers, calling a friend? Easier said than done, I know!! Has it helped reading your plan for attraction? What did you do today?
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
