Well I will just share that the last time my x tried to contact me in person many years ago I was too afraid. NO no no. Email communication only. Good decision. Turns out he had been encouraged to share that he and the OW were having a baby long before we were even divorced. It wasn't a good day and I feel your pain to this day. There is no reason for you to see him at this point if you ask me. Which you didn't. Take care of yourself. Wonder