I was going to say that in the quote above, your expectations are clear. You'd like enthusiasm and more offers to help. I think that's when things started going sour.
H is gone. (The spaceship analogy, right?) Maybe H would have done those things, but now WAH is here. He is "limited" and will do very little. Period!
(I know you know this already, but I just had to say it again.)
You may suck at quoting G, but you are spot on with your advice! Thanks for repeating what I need to hear...maybe it will sink in one day?
I noticed in the last few weeks I started to call WAH just plain and simple "H" in my posts... a Freudian slip I think... It's like I have lulled myself into thinking H was still H, rather than an ALIEN rocketting through the sky with OW!!
So:
no expectations treat him like the neighbour who got me pregnant he is no longer my H
Thanks for repeating what I need to hear...maybe it will sink in one day? 
