Hi Thanks for your kind words of encouragement M&H and Lost1234. After a few down days I am back to detaching and am sitting and waiting. Its Patience all the way.
H continues to make contact.
After going through many months of spewing, my H seems happier and the anger has gone. Does this happen when they move through the tunnel closer to acceptance? He is still in replay but he changed about 6 weeks ago. I have seen him going through thoughtful moments recnetly, when he seems like he has switched off and is thinking. I have also seen times when he acts like a teenager, which confused me a little at the time, but I just accepted and didn't react. He continues to test my reactions to the things he has or is doing also.
