Allen, I found a couple of very good articles on the internet and left copies laying around. One is called "Divorce Effect on Children" by Sara Eleoff" and the other is called "Marriage and Commitment" by Doug Goins. She did pick them up to read them and immedietely started to search the internet for info on "unhappy marriage effects on children".

Yesterday, she went to see the OM again while I was at work. I think they are discussing their plans - I don't know. I also got a newspaper with rental ads that I'm planning to leave laying around a little later today.

I'm holding off on the R talk for now. Just doing what you suggested for now. I just wish she would make a decision one way or the other for RECONCILLIATION or SEPARATION.

My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.