The Court of King Caractacus

[JacT]

Saf,

I find the pain skin patched really help.I have had surgery twice on L4/5 due to prolapse which compromised spinal coloumn.There is still a large fragment pressing on sciatic nerve so pain radiates down my leg into big toe.
The discs below L4/5 are leaking so the nerves in both legs are causing alot of pain.It is also giving abdominal pain around the iliac nerve.In my neck c5/6 on my left side is prolapsed compromising nerve root and causing pain down arm into fingers.On the right side C6/7 is bulging.
In Oct 04 was due to have spinal fusion in Oxford Nutfield but felt the risk outweighed the benfits.I take tramadol sr and wear the pain patches at max dose.I also take anti inflammories.The tablets have cause bowel probs..
I understand completely, it is a terrible space to be in.
Have you tried skin pain patches?

Lees you will get through this..its the one certain thing.We will recover from and learn to live without our spouses if thats our destiny.You do the right thing in venting your feeling here.
Your W has def had problems in her childhood and this is what drives her destructive behaviour.You have behaved like a lady, graceful and in control..she will regret this at some point.
I am no longer living every moment waiting for my H to come home.I thought he would.
She will see the errors of her way..its all down to timing.
Hugs((()))ladies.