Lin will keep you posted.Thanks for all you support and advise.I will look at info tomorrow so I can print out for my D.My youngest is going to counsellig through school which I think will help.

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith