I was married before. And it was a great love. But ended after 7 yrs of a R including 3 of a M. But not on the expense of other persons. I need help here guys. Serious help. It seems I cant move forward. Sometimes I am going back to "basics" to: "how could he do this?"... I know, useless.
I may need to find an IC. I dont think I will ever get past this. I do feel the need to see her )OW) but I am thinking I will then feel another need and then another and I will keep spinning my wheels without getting unstuck... I dont care how nice he is, I am doubting we can ever have a solid R.
He told me today, the slept almost every night together in 2008. Practically living together.She knew he was coming to me in 2009 and she accepted going back to "once-twice a week". How pathetic was she?
