Officer, I found the following excerpt from another forum. And this is motivation to any of us currently being cheated on:
"First, let me say that I never reccommend working it out with a cheater. Despite her "good reasons " for cheating, she has been unfaithful and that is unacceptable. but fix it and just swallow the crap is pretty much the way of modern thought. You going the extra ten miles to please her in bed is such a fine reward for her infidelity. When raising kids or training animals , you never reward bad behavior because it re-enforces the idea that they can get what they want through bad behavior. Adult humans are no different. Beyond that...
My real question is how do you know he was hung? And how hung was he supposedly?"
Its pretty much saying don't reward the infidelity.
I don't think you say anything to her, and you let this situation burn her because it sounds like OM and OMW are going to get back together, wife will be left out.
I don't know why this fantasy makes the OM relationship so much more important to yours where she will say "whatever".
