Just leave it, she sounds determined to stay there.
The other thing is, she COULD look for work closer to her father's place... another reason I think she's just bluffing.. or at least isn't 100% out the door.
If she really wanted out OIN, she would leave... there's always a way out.. she's holding back ...
Just leave the work thing for her.. if she wants out help her, but don't PUSH her to leave there... I don't think that's gonna help you or your marriage right now... she is way too vulnerable and escapism is NOT something you want her to be learning his a good thing ...
Don't be negative and tell her to stay, just nod and let her drive her career choices..
