PG: Have talked extensively about OM with my IC. This will be our second session with a new MC, and she knows about OM. With W in denial about EA, is it a good idea to continue to question her about it? I am hoping the MC visit will be constructive. If OM discussion comes up, I hope she is the one to bring it up. She recently told me that I would never trust her again, and the only reason for that is OM. I recognize OM is a sympton, not the cause of our sitch. I hope to get to the cause of our sitch, to really start talking about issues.

I then go as NC as possible when I leave for 3 weeks a week from now. I hope she uses the time to think about our sitch. Only time will tell I suppose.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012