OK a little more was said after she got out of bath and came into bedroom

W came in room, grabbed computer, went onto facebook...
I had made a post on facebook a day or so ago

Psalms 109:2, "For the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the
deceitful are opened against me: they have spoken against me with a
lying tongue."


I been posting bible quotes on facebook fro a couple months now...She asked "Whats this?" I asked "What" and she said "This post you made, what is that suppose to mean?"

I said "Its a quote from the bible that I liked" and she said "I know its a quote form the bible but why this one, and she had a slight smirk on her face"

I said "Nothing to it, I don't like dishonest people and neither does the LORD and read the quote, liked it and posted it."

Maybe I went a little too far with the quote posting...

Wife then shut down her computer and covered up.

I asked W "Do you plan on going up to the hospital?"

W replied "I am very stressed out, I do not feel like doing anything"

I said "We have not went up to her in a few weeks, last time I went she was asking about you, it's not fair to her...don't let this consume you"

Then a few moments later I said "You been working where you are for 3 years now, 2 months into the job you started to tell me how much you hate it and how stressful it is. For nearly 3 years every day you would come home tired and stressed out...I hate seeing you like that or know that this job makes you feel this way. You told me the people you deal with and the people you work with stress you out, you hate the job. You worked so hard toward your education I would hate for you to give it up for a job you can't stand. Consider a leave of absence or go to part time and put focus back on your education, you owe it to yourself."

I probably went overboard that is why I ended it there. She has a lot in her head, a lot to think about and I just gave her more to think about so I am going to back off and give her space.


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10