So, the H showed up last night... was waiting in foyer when I got in late. He was in tears, and tried to hug me.
I asked him to step away from me, and leave. This is way too little too late. He broke me down once, and, he will not be allowed back in to do it again.
I felt good.
So, this am... he showed up at S13's soccer game. And, afterward, follows us home... He comes in my office to temperature check my mood. I calmly told him..."Listen, I'm glad you want to be involved w/the boys. I don't want to be around you, SO, here's my suggestions re: splitting duties w/them this weekend..."
So, he is handling one of them for games, etc... and I'm handling the other... for today and tomorrow.
And, on Monday am if he is still here. My conversation will include... Have you retained an attorney? If so, good, here is the card of mine. Please direct all communications to him. If not, you had better soon, because if you don't file, I will. Immediately.
That's it.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.