The problem DLS is that OM is NOT setting the record straight with OIN's wife.. he's leading her on...
If OM was acting like a husband and an adult OIN your wife would not HAVE these fantasies... OM is feeding them to her somehow... Or at the very last he's NOT saying anything to dispell them... I can't imagine your wife is just stalking this guy and he's completely innocent... your wife got these ideas in her head from someplace... He's leading her on somehow.. and he's got to knock it off... I suspect he's telling his wife one thing and telling YOUR wife something else in private.
Right now he's painting it out like he's completely innocent and your wife is some sociopathic stalker.. I doubt that's the truth of the matter... I think he's more involved in this than he's letting on...
That's why I wanted the facebook thing, it was ONE STORY in writing that BOTH women would be reading... it cuts out all the lies when its written and in public view...
You could tell your wife you want to REDUCE the amount of calls you get from over there and asked her to look into using facebook to keep you updated...
Then OMW sends you BOTH invites to her facebook account as friends in the GUISE of her not wanting to call you so often.
She just has to update the account regularly...
Facebook is stupid for the most part, I have seen so many people hurt and cheated on with that damn software it's sickening...
