That struck me as odd too. For you personally, that her dance friend is telling people you are married, I think, could be a good sign that he will be less of a distraction, thorn in the side. His telling people you are married sort of makes it sound like he is recognizing and respecting that more than in the past.

Your wife objecting to people knowing you are married or objecting to him telling people you are married is really really strange to me. The only reason I can imagine her having a problem with it is if she wanted to make yourself seem available in those circles.


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted