Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

The only problem is, OMW is ignorant when it comes to facebook, she has an account but as she told me rarely goes on it. She said she would ask help from someone at work. Her profile it not public though so my W would have to be her friend in order to see these comments.

I am trying to think of other ways to get the point across,if not face book.

What I need is some ammunition that will help create doubt in my W head without pushing her away or making her feel like she has to prove a point. I like the way you put it in a earlier post

"Running away is not going to make either of us happy in long term"

I need more lines like this, I can't use the same one over and over when she brings up the fact she is leaving. I have thought of a few but then when I said them over in my head they came across as pursuit or as if I was daring her. Almost like "You cant be happy out there without me, prove it" and that is NOT how I want it to come out.