God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change
The courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.

You have to accept that you cannot change her mind. Only she can do that.

We have all done things wrong. Is there anything you can change? What is NOT working?

Protect yourself. That is not doing anything against her, it is doing it FOR you. Change the locks. If she chose to leave, it is no longer her home, and why should you give access to her?

One of the key ingredients is allowing yourself some peace of mind. In the grand scheme of things, why allow your W to continue to have the things she wants, while making your life miserable? Remember, this is what she wanted...she did not want to be with you. So let her see what that is like. You don't need to be mean or cruel. Just allow her to see you living your life, without her.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..