We did it. A pair of pants, a casmere sweater,a few tshirts, a shirt, books... Some cosmetics she had left in his apt, all thrown away. No love notes, cds or anything similar. Those must be kept somewhere else.
He answered many questions.
I'm so glad.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
She was much bigger part of his life than my mind can "get". And now? She is "out"? Is my H able to replace people so easily?
Kalni, did you ever have a boyfriend before your H? Someone who you loved and shared a lot with? If so, is that boyfriend "out"? Did something shift inside you so that you still have the memories, and maybe even some warmth and goodwill, but they don't have that real estate in your heart any more? I'm guessing that's what your H feels for OW now.
(((Kalni)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
