Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

You are right. Now once every couple weeks or so, I will come home or wake up to a clean house. She'll clean and organize entire rooms of the house but she does not do the little things (thing I guess can be overlooked). If I say something, I feel like I am then establishing a father-daughter relationship which I DO NOT WANT. Yes, I sat around for many years doing nothing, not even the little things and let her do all the work.

What I found odd and I mentioned this in my other thread. little over a week ago W was on facebook uploading pictures of herself at our wedding, she even included a picture of us on our honeymoon. She then put the pictures on her phone.... a couple days later she is on a family members facebook page looking at their photos and she comes across a picture of us holding hands at our wedding. She saves the picture then sends it to herself in email and it is now on her phone. She then went through our wedding photos folder and there were a couple pictures of her and her family at our wedding, and she sent them to herself in email. The file size was too large for her to download them to her phone though.

The drawback to all this, W was never into facebook and now check it everyday when before maybe once every 4-5 months she might check it out.

I never questioned why she uploaded these photos, but I assumed that she would assume by doing so I would think there was a slight glimmer of hope, so why do it?


I spoke with OMW this morning. She once again told me how great there marriage has been. Sh said before this all happened she even was questioning whether or not she wanted tobe married to OM, once all of this settled they became closer than ever. OM going out of his way to please his W and tells her how much he loves her and how happy her is she stuck by him ect..She said they're sex life is greater than it was before and there has even been talks about a second child.

I told OMW I was happy for them and keep at it and on him. I gave her some DB tips and suggested she read 5LL. I told her to start updating her facebook page and make profile public and say how happy they're marriage is.