I hope you are doing well! I was catching up on your thread & to answer your question about how the h was before the bomb, my h was also moody & would get angry, this was before ow was in the picture, after he met her he was distant. She was in another state but I'm sure he felt guilty.
Have you read the book by Jim Conway, Men In Midlife Crisis? It describes my h to a tee! Even the part about his childhood.
