MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Mila

Somehow I missed your post. My vehicle is one that I have driven for several years...both of our names are on it. It has been a good and decent vehicle...this is where I am torn...several friends have told me to keep it and the truck, H has his rod, motorcycles and OW to drive him around...H sold his truck when we got Dad's and we had another car that we sold last year, pre OW...I feel kinda guilty about taking both...

I am more comfortable driving my little vehicle than the truck but the truck is probably worth more in trade...BUT, S14, will be needing something to drive down the road...I don't know...

[courageous wife]

HB

Thanks for stopping by!

I just don't know what is up with the wood...maybe he is just storing it here...who knows...

Thankyou for saying I am doing well despite everything...I hate dealing with car repairs, lawn mower stuff etc...

H got the mower going and S14 was mowing for someone tonight and got some decorative fencing tangled up in the blade...turns out, he had a couple of friends there while mowing, distracting him (not to mention that he let them ride on the deck of the mower blades!) Got a call from someone aabout it. I was PO'd!!! I walked up there and told off the friends! Luckily, we got the fencing untangled and he was able to finish mowing. Told him that if he was not responsible enough to have these mowing jobs that he could give them up!!!

"Guilt might not make a good bed fellow, but sometimes it can work to your advantage especially if you need something."

Funny you said that as my L also mentioned that a couple of weeks ago when we talked of what to ask for!

Thanks HB! Hope your drive is safe!

[courageous wife]

H brought the truck this morning. Said he filled it with gas. Told him he didn't have to do that and thankyou.

Asked about my vehicle, said he'd take a look at it.

Pointed out the wood he brought.

Kids told him they went for eye appts and ordered new glasses. H asked if we like the new eye dr and where he was located.

H said have a good time and tell everyone hi and sorry he couldn't come (this is his sisters that we are going to)

Was here a total of maybe 15mins...I ran around packing while he was talking with the kids.

Not at all reading anything in to any of this...just journaling.

And, I didn't feel like breaking down in tears when he left!

[Cadet]

I didn't feel like breaking down in tears when he left!

[seeking answers]

CW, You did good!

Have a great weekend!!!

[Mila]

CW - Keep journaling...you are doing great with the detachment part.

[happynow]

Hi CW,

Sounds like you are going wonderful with the detaching!

(((HUGS)))

[Mach1]

Pointed out the wood he brought.

First thread I have ever read where there are a lot of women complaining about a man having excessive wood....




Seriously though,

You are doing great, and remember.....

In the wide wonderful world of MLC....

Not everything is as it appears.......

[newmama]

CW what will you do about telling H you want your truck back?

[seeking answers]

First thread I have ever read where there are a lot of women complaining about a man having excessive wood....

The only time I've read of complaints is when the wood is misplaced some place it has no business being.....