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With running the risk of sounding snarky.....


Who cares ?

Seriously though.

Living well is for YOU, not him.

He has issues that are keeping him from seeing what really was and was not.

These issues are his Shel, not yours.

If you live your life to please another, in a relationship. Then you are being false and not true to you.

The changes that you make, are for you to become a person that someone would be a fool to walk away from.

NOT as a tactic to "prove him wrong"




So.....being snarky ?????


Who cares.....


I hope your little guy feels better soon.......

: )





Not snarky at all. Quite necessary, I'd say.

Why do I care??

Why DO I care???

Good freakin' question.

I don't have an answer.

But it might be a good thing to ask myself that very question when I start to wonder how my actions might be perceived.

I have to remember to keep putting myself & the kids first.

Feel free to keep reminding me. wink


formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.