Kids running all over the place. We're trying to decide how to spend the day -- rock climbing, a fundraiser at a school north of here and then 2:30 p.m. out to a small zoo so D11 can have her picture taken with a llama that she won a naming contest for. She picked the name Gracie and the staff liked it.

Don't you find the day after a shock is always better. Time heals. Time heals. Time heals.

Exercise one from the abandonment book -- Stay In The Moment.

That's in a lot of books -- focus on the now, today, not yesterday, tomorrow or two months from now.

How to do that?

Here's some of the book's ideas:

Listen to background noises.

Close your eyes to identify the sounds you hear.

Focus on your breathing.

Today is May 15, 2010. It's the only one I'll ever get.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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