Ok,.. MC... Monday. You're confused, and you feel like you're chasing your tail.

Now... careful... with the examples you use etc: you say she's napping at your house, in your bed etc. If you bring that kind of thing up... she might stop doing it.

That said, I think that NC for 3 weeks is wise. Force this issue with her. Give her a little dose of reality without you. You're coddling her and it's got YOU chasing YOUR tail. So somewhere along the lines you need to do a 180. The forced 3 weeks will give you that chance without looking like the bad guy.

Her depression is something she need to get a grip on and what's causing it, what she's going to do to help herself to break it. Is she bi-polar by chance?

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.