WH had work-related community outreach program that he wanted to take kids to last night. Didn't ask me to go. They were gone from 6-9:30 last night.
This morning I hear from kids they left the house, picked up OW and another grad student and went to function. Dropped off other grad student on way back, then went back to work where WH helped OW look for something in lab for 45 min while kids run amok. He never mentioned OW was there.
Don't know if he took kids to report back and rub this in my face, or if he'll try to play the "the kids were there to chaperone" card, which he's done before. Had I know OW was going to go, I would have kept kids home. Do NOT want her influencing them in any way.
Should I confront him? Ignore it? Play the 180 card? What?