You sound OK. Good. I think your gut feelings regarding your STBXMIL are well founded. Mine was supportive of me throughout the entire separation, up until the time that her daughter filed for divorce. Then she made a complete 'about face' and dropped me like a hot rock.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
