our families dont really understand and as you said your mom may be experiencing her own sort of situation with her friemd
I did find a few women in my area who had been through this and could be supportive
yes I can relate to living in a mess too as I felt and sometimes still do my situation was extremeely weird, as compared to many neighbors, family and friends who had semi stable and working M where H stayed committed MY XH also had no connection with his dad..many of MLCers seem to foolow the legacy of a parent and maybe the unstable parent? so anyway hang in there More is revealed as time goes on we get VERY strong and learn to detatch and move on some Spouses will return some not no one knows but we have to continue for oursleves and our klids peace
It is what it is though
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow