Just read your last post

you seem very strong and well grounded

our families dont really understand and as you said your mom may be experiencing her own sort of situation with her friemd

I did find a few women in my area who had been through this and could be supportive

yes I can relate to living in a mess too as I felt and sometimes still do my situation was extremeely weird, as compared to many neighbors, family and friends who had semi stable and working M where H stayed committed
MY XH also had no connection with his dad..many of MLCers seem to foolow the legacy of a parent
and maybe the unstable parent?
so anyway hang in there
More is revealed as time goes on
we get VERY strong and learn to detatch and move on
some Spouses will return
some not
no one knows but we have to continue for oursleves and our klids
peace

It is what it is though


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow