Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix
Is this the end?

Could this be a good thing?

At first - 6 M ago, I considered her finding somewhere else to stay would be the final straw and mark the end of it all.

Now I am not so sure.

Lets see.

Gyn.

Ps
Turns out she was not planning for the boys to sleep over tonight.
But they have asked her if they can, and then she asked me if it was ok. Dumb question.


Didn't you guys already plan for the boys to come this weekend? And then she changed her mind and the schedule? More disrespect. Look plain & simple you tell her that you had planned for the boys to sleep over, she can't change her mind like that when it comes to you seeing the boys, if you guys agreed on this schedule, then it has to be held to, it can't be what's convenient only for her - convenience will no longer factor into the child custody schedule.

Like I said, up to you but you need to start setting boundaries and enforcing them otherwise expect this type of treatment to continue - why would it change on it's own?