We have been married almost 21 years... have two teenage boys... H is active duty military and is stationed about 5 hours from us. About the time he got these orders I discovered he was having an affair with a co-worker.
Ideally to work things out we should have moved as a family but with the economy and housing market that was not possible.
There have been many issues over the years. Lots of dysfunctional stuff. I began counseling almost 4 years ago and started dealing with mine. Maybe that was why everything eventually came to a head.
I love my H... As mad as I have gotten over some things I have never stopped loving him for one day. I hope he will eventually look at himself, fall to his knees and figure out how to be good to himself and find happiness.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
