We'll I'm excited to be moving my thread into the piecing section of this site. Everything has been real positive on homefront, we are enjoying each other's company, having a great time with our kids and dedicated to making this right.

We are planning on moving slowly with us. We are going to continue to hang out and just have fun together. I feel very secure with us, and I do feel the trust coming back as she does open up to me. She still works with OM, but she has set firm boundaries and he is respecting them to this point. Apparently he is going to try to work it out with his W, so I wish the best for them.

Anyways, we are looking for direction and are curious when sex should be introduced back into the relationship. I feel that we will just know when it is the right time and I do want to take it slow. W has moved back home, and we did spend the night together in our bed. We talked a lot and cuddled and boy did that feel nice. No doubt I want her, but I just don't want to rush anything. I hear that the physical can help bring back the emotional connection and am curious as to what others have found.

thanks for any info on how to proceed!!