Need a Plan for My Marriage

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The rollercoaster continues. I made some calls today, and I found some people that will help me with my sitch. If she does try to take the kids, which there is every indication that she will. I will not let it happen. It made me feel a little safer about that. I listened to coach and everyone here to take each problem that I have one at a time. That is is what I am doing. I did not let her push me around on the bills or things at home. I told her what she is doing is wrong with the money and to our family. I did not let her make excuses. I was calm and told her that I she will not keep me from being involved in what happens in our M and at home with the kids. I did not let it get into an argument. I was very calm and made my point. I simply told her this is what will be acceptable to me.

She did not fight me on it. I will continue to just do what I am doing with a new sense of security that I have people out there that will help me with my sitch. It really feels good for a change. I am doing much better after reading thread from idontunderstand, and advice from OTMT, DLS, Coach, and others that gave me support.

I could do it without you. Thank you so much!

I still have a long hard road to travel, but it just got a little easier.