+ Easily is the most popular guy and the 'life of the party' + Often talked about his physical ailments. BUT NEVER BEFORE 1.5 YEARS AGO, WHICH IS WHEN HE HAD A MUTIPLE SCLEROSIS SCARE + Read a lot of philosophy and could really hold his own in intellectual conversations + Extremely hard worker; worked his a** off in grad school to get the job he now has
^ Similarities with my H.
I would add that my H is:
- not a health freak (smokes, bad diet except when with me, etc), but physically impressive (back country skier, climber, etc).
- Very unselfconscious. Couldn't give a rats what he or I are wearing, saying etc.
- Worries about money cos came from poor background, but not tight.
- Couldn't spend time alone.
- Not a natural on the domestic front but a great spontaneous cook
- very positive, chirpy person, although quite bitchy about others
