Ok. Today is the day. This is what I intend to do.

I'm hiring a van and a driver. The driver will help me carry the boxes
so he'll be my "buffer" if things get intense.

I will be polite but scarce on words and confident. I will try to keep the conversation to "hi" "yes" "no" and "bye". I will only ask things if it's unavoidable.

Now, it's very, very unlikely but what if she wants to talk?

My guess is telling her it's not the time or place to do that. We can arrange for that some other time, let's say Sunday. (This is in part for her not controlling me but also because I have been invited to a BBQ which I don't intend to miss!)

Again, it's unlikely but just wanted to know what you guys think.
Or should I reject talking to her on the basis that it's now me who is not interested?

Thanks.

Last edited by FormelyknownasF; 05/15/10 06:30 AM.

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