Flow - 4 months of dimness for you? That's long...I guess you are just matching your H's behavior, still must be really hard. The problem with my H is that he wants to be my best friend and business partner while leaving me to be with OW.
We're going through different kinds of hard . You're dealing with cake eating...but you also have a lot of evidence that your H still values many things about you, and doesn't want to let go of those things. I've been completely cut off, but I have the benefit of being left to detach and prepare for D in peace.
HB, as usual your writings are very moving, and they've given me food for thought.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. You're dealing with cake eating...but you also have a lot of evidence that your H still values many things about you, and doesn't want to let go of those things. I've been completely cut off, but I have the benefit of being left to detach and prepare for D in peace.
