Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

I don't think so. Besides those 'friends' at work, she has no friends. She has family she could possibly go to but I don't think she wants them to know our issues, I think she feels embarrassed.

She said at one point "people keep telling me to leave and get out of this bad situation" She said her father and father's GF had said this. She also said that her father offered/suggested she come stay with him, she turned down the offer because it is 2 hours away from her work place (one way).

That is the reasoning my W gave me, so I heard often

- I am counting down the days
- Soon as my father has the place ready, I am leaving
- I am just co-existing

and so on...

My W is so withdrawn and detached from everything that she does nothing. She has abandoned the care of our pets including feeding, cleaning up after ect. She puts no effort into the upkeep of our home. She just eats, sleeps, watches TV...