I will read over the FT's tomorrow, can't type much...
There's too many variables to suggest much at the moment... just let her mope and be supportive...
the one drawback of intel is that it CAN traumatize those without the stomach to get past it...
Just keep up the dbing... I do think its making a dent...
Seriously OIN lets ask this question.. if your wife REALLY wanted to leave is there NOWHERE she could go?
I am just wondering why if she is so determined to exit why she hasn't done so... I honeslty think she has her doubts too... do NOT bring that up.. EVER... it is tantamount to challenging her to walk out.
