D - I agree with Jack and Mila. I think you did the right thing. It is not your D fault and I'm sure that your D was happy that mommy attended. I have done this several times these past few months in my sitch. I do it for me and the kids.
FTR - it goes to show the class act that youy are.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans