whatnow,
Thank you for the advice. You are right about the way I respond. The times I say "I'm sorry you feel that", etc. He usually changes is tune.

I just have to pray every night for patiences, I have none and this has been a very hard lesson for me.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10