I had a friend over on the MLC board who gave me good advice. No matter what you do, do it with dignity, grace, and honor. I think you have done an acceptional job of just that. Now, this doesn't mean you cannot get angry. We all do. It's what you do with the anger, the outlet you use that counts.

For me, I love saying Karma is a bitch. And let me tell you, she knows no boundary, color, religion, sexual preference, or gender.

You don't really have to "do" anything. Because in the end, it all comes back. It's not that we wish anything bad to happen to our spouses. Okay, to be honest, I am sure some of us do. But in reality, Karma is simply God's way of teaching that person a lesson. And trust me, if they don't get it the first time, God has much more patience that we do. wink He can keep doing this for a looooong time.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..