he did contact me today... al day actually. even now.
So Grandmother was rushed to hospital yesterday. ironically it is the same hospital that H does his school clinical in. And strange and odd as it may be, h was on call last night (very rare...never happens...what r the chances), so he was at the hospital all day and night w my family. He text me in the morning yesterday just to didnt call him to tell him. At that point he was still home... I told him in reply to his text about other things, didnt think he would mind if i didnt call right away. Seems like he cares...
So H hung out w my family in the ER while on call, and text me update while he sat w my mom, sisters and gmom and everyone else! texts continued throughout the day and while going up to see Gmom last night he called, and i said i was driving up. When i walked in the hospital, i almost fell over, he was waiting for me in the lobby. he stayed in the room with us. he went to get his bags out on the on-call room and brought them to my gmom's room to hang out. at one point gmom was sleeping, and the others went to get food... how romantic... me, H and sleeping Gmom. hahaha
My family loves loves loves loves him. they all told me although what he did was completely wrong, they love him like he is their own and would forgive him. thank goodness I am 100% okay with it... actually I am really happy to see that they would welcome him back with open arms, no judgement and also am glad H gets to see this too. apparantly they all expressed how they missed him and love him, nothing more (i think). they are all rooting and pushing for a reconciliation, but dont show him that. they just show him support and were so darn happy to see him...
H seemed happy and completly normal. before his shift ended early this morning he stopped back in the room to say goodbye to my mom and gmom. Mom said that is the H she always knew and loved.
He has been in very little communication with my family over the past few months... lately I find that he has been reaching out.
Today he text me and called several times. He is starting to share all of these things with me like he used to such as what's going on with his friends... the patients and cases he dealt with while at the hospital... just like old times.
His family has been calling, stopping over, making plans w/ me for dinner...
seems like everyone else is in place just waiting for the stars to align and H to come back home!
few more texts just came through... just wanted to see how i was, what am i up to... and just to talk...
