Oh, yeah, thanks NM for the timeline reminder on going dim. 3 months sounds like a decent time frame. Enough time to get settled into the house and into a new routine. And if H does start giving indications of wanting to work on the relationship instead of divorce, then I agree it would definitely be appropriate to talk about MC and the EA.
And thanks on the compliment. I always have seemed to be able to put together a list like that for other people, but this is the first time I've ever done a plan like that for myself. It felt somewhat empowering!
Edited to add: Letter a after Step 6 should say return to steps 4 and 5. Forgot to edit Step numbers when I combined a couple items.
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Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
